Madhu Makwan asks a reporter to translate a card in English she received from a Canadian family for whom the Indian laborer spent nine months gestating their son for them.
The letter reads in part: “Without your help and sacrifice, we would not be able to have our family. Please know we will tell him about you and how special you are to us. We will never forget you, you will always be in our hearts.”
Makwan delivered the boy two weeks ago. “Of course I feel bad — I kept the child in my womb for nine months,” she said. “But she needs a child; I need money.”
Surrogacy in India is booming, thanks to the low cost of the procedure, availability of surrogates in the world’s second most populous country and the fact that India is one of the few countries in the world that allows commercial surrogacy.
In one hostel in Anand — a small city known as the “milk capital” of India in the far western state of Gujarat — there are 50 surrogate mothers living together, each who will earn around U.S.$8,000 for carrying a baby.
“It’s a lot of money,” said a woman who identifies herself as Manjula. “For people like us who have never seen money, it’s a lot of money.”
This is the second time Manjula — a 30-year-old who has a son and two daughters of her own — has carried a child for profit. Before surrogacy, she and her husband used to earn less than $2 a day working in the fields. “The first time I came, I made a house,” she said. “Now I have come for my daughter. I have to educate her, I have to get her married.”
“I want to teach my daughters computers; I have to educate them — get (them) married to a nice boy,” she added.
The number of skilled doctors has made India a global Mecca for couples seeking someone to carry their baby for them. At this hostel, all the women are under the care of Dr. Nayana Patel. She began caring for surrogates in 2003, when she helped a grandmother who was carrying twins for her daughter.
“That’s when I started commercial surrogacy because not everyone is lucky to have a mother or a sister or a friend to carry their child,” she said.
“The surrogate is getting the life that she dreamed of, because otherwise she could not get this kind of money or change the life for her husband, her children, get a house, educated her children,” said Patel, who has delivered close to 700 babies from surrogates for 580 couples since 2004. “And the couple could never have had a child if the surrogate had not helped them. So — the ultimate result is a baby has come into this earth, which is beautiful.”
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